Projections of your past painful experiences have a tendency to function like a thought virus, resulting in a never ending cycle of negativity meandering through your most intimate relationships. Unless you resolve these experiences and their projections with personal growth work, they will continue to poison your relationships. Hypnosis and NLP can help you in this area of personal growth
Emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.
When you have certain level of emotional intelligence, you can connect to people and maintain relationships that are happy, peaceful and growth producing. The result is, you feel joy from being connected to yourself and others, naturally.